I was in a nice calm “zen state” but I can hear my husband screaming at the telemarketers that always seem to call around this time each evening.  We are on that do not call list but a few always seem to slip through.  So, I turn up my headset (yes, Jackson Browne as usual) and my usual blogging attire:  pajama pants, loose shirt, no bra, warm sweater, and fuzzy socks.   Let the blogging begin…

We went down to Laguna Beach in Southern California for 5 days last week.  It was really awesome.  The weather was nice, the sun on my face was bliss, the sound of the surf soothed my soul and the soreness in my legs from walking was a welcome pain. 

I realized that I am a “motivational” junkie as I explored the local shops.    I found it so odd as I dumped my stash of purchases on the bed of my hotel room that a fellow blogger I follow was writing about how she loves motivational  quotes.  Life is strange how there are so many people living in this world that are so different but yet so alike.   Life is interesting that way.  When you take the time to get to know people it’s amazing how much we all have in common.  Everyone is just trying to find his or her own slice of happiness.  

All right, so here are some of the “quotes”  I saw and bought.  Many were just magnets or stones.  I think many of them would make interesting subjects to blog about, especially number one.  I was just drawn to them.   I also took sand, rocks, shells and small pieces of driftwood from the beach.  I’ll probably put them in some interesting jar from Pier One Imports near my desk. 

1)     What would you attempt to do if you knew you could not fail?

2)    Go confidently in the direction of your dreams! Live the life you’ve imagined.

3)    Life isn’t about finding yourself.  Life is about creating yourself.

4)    Anyplace with a beach is heaven to me

5)    Dream

6)    Believe

7)    Laugh out Loud!

8)    All Glory comes from daring to begin

9)    The journey is everything

10) The best is yet to be
I noticed that I’ve been blogging for almost one year, wow that’s kind of amazing.  I’ve got to get busy; I’d like to have at least fifty posts by my Anniversary Date of February 28th

Well don’t want to make this too long.  Hope everyone has a nice week and to my family and friends back East I hope that snow stops, like yesterday!!!

I was in a nice calm “zen state” but I can hear my husband screaming at the telemarketers that always seem to call around this time each evening.  We are on that do not call list but a few always seem to slip through.  So, I turn up my headset (yes, Jackson Browne as usual) and my usual blogging attire:  pajama pants, loose shirt, no bra, warm sweater, and fuzzy socks.   Let the blogging begin…

We went down to Laguna Beach in Southern California for 5 days last week.  It was really awesome.  The weather was nice, the sun on my face was bliss, the sound of the surf soothed my soul and the soreness in my legs from walking was a welcome pain. 

I realized that I am a “motivational” junkie as I perused around all the local shops.    I found it so odd as I dumped my stash of purchases on the bed of my hotel room that a fellow blogger I follow was writing about how she loves motivational l quotes.  Life is strange how there are so many people living in this world that are so different but yet so alike.   Life is interesting that way.  When you take the time to get to know people it’s amazing how much we all have it common.  Everyone is just trying to find his or her own slice of happiness.  

All right, so here are some of the “quotes”  I saw and bought.  Many were just magnets or stones.  I think many of them would make interesting subjects to blog about, especially number one.  I was just drawn to them.   I also took sand, rocks, shells and small pieces of driftwood from the beach.  I’ll probably put them in some interesting jar from Pier One Imports near my desk. 

1)     What would you attempt to do if you knew you could not fail?

2)    Go confidently in the direction of your dreams! Live the life you’ve imagined.

3)    Life isn’t about finding yourself.  Life is about creating yourself.

4)    Anyplace with a beach is heaven to me

5)    Dream

6)    Believe

7)    Laugh out Loud!

8)    All Glory comes from daring to begin

9)    The journey is everything

10) The best is yet to be

I noticed that I’ve been blogging for almost one year, wow that’s kind of amazing.  I’ve got to get busy; I’d like to have at least fifty posts by my Anniversary Date of February 28th. 

Well don’t want to make this too long.  Hope everyone has a nice week and to my family and friends back East I hope that snow stops, like yesterday!!!

I’m in my favorite Blogging attire:  fleece pajama pants, loose t-shirt, no bra, fuzzy socks, slippers and my headset playing some Jackson Browne.  Life doesn’t get better than this, not for me. 


I had a “spa” day with a couple of girlfriends this afternoon.  It was such a great day.  I really enjoyed getting into some serious discussions about life, religion or lack of it, ambitions, dreams, insecurities, and passions.    I love conversations that help me grow as a person.  It was one of those kinds of days. 


One of the ladies pointed out that I say this certain phrase constantly whenever I am talking.  She was doing it in a kind way and just making me aware of it.  I have been saying it for so long, why hadn’t anyone else ever told me.  She would touch her nose every time I said it; I’m surprised her nose didn’t fall off by the end of the day.  I know I have your curiosity peeked, “what is the phrase.”  I told her that when I “write” that “phrase” never appears.  “What do you think that means,” she asks. 


I think it’s about insecurities that we all have, it’s the baggage that we all carry from our childhoods.  The feeling of not wanting to be singled out, appear inferior to others.  I find that through my writing my authentic being appears.  This is who I am, the real me.  Wow, that’s just so powerful to me.  I just feel lucky because I feel like I “get it.”  I’m unique, I have dreams that I am trying to make a reality.  I’m excited about the future and what life holds for me if I leave myself open to the possibilities.






I’ve been back from my holiday vacation for almost one week and am slowly getting back into the groove of things.

I’ve signed up for another class that starts next month. What can I say, I like to learn new things. If I want to apply to that company I mentioned in a previous post I need to become proficient in this computer program. I will have to take a second class once I’ve completed this one. I don’t think I have the experience needed for the positions that I’ve seen open on their website but I’m hoping soon I will see one that will be a nice fit for me.

I had some really sad news from home that I am still trying to get a handle on. A neighborhood friend of mine from childhood died on Friday night. He was only 44 years old, married, 4 children and just an all around “great guy.” It just rocks you to the core. It’s a reality check that we are never promised tomorrow and we must live each day to the fullest. I’m fortunate that I was able to see him last week while I was home, never in my wildest dreams would I have known it would be the last time 🙁



The car ride home from the



I’ve been in my childhood home for the holidays this year and I have to say,  I find so much comfort in the “familiar.”

It’s still strange for me, the absense of my father.  I keep waiting for that distinctive sound he made when he would clear his throat or having him poke his head in the living room when he would have a commercial on the television in the other room.  

I guess I’m just feeling a bit melancholy tonight because my trip is coming to and end and soon I will have to say goodbye to my family. I’m never one that does well with goodbyes and I know I will shed some tears over the next day or two.

The airport drop off routine was always the same when my Dad was alive. He was always the one to drop me off, just him and I. I’d always have tears rolling down my face for at least 2 or 3 miles before we actually arrive at the airport. He knew this and would only ask questions where a nod was enough of an answer or he’d ask no questions at all. He would take my bag out of the trunk and place it on the curb, give me a hug, make a little small talk. At this point I cannot even look up, I can never say anything because I am a wreck. But I know he knows I love him,  so this does not need to be said. A quick hug and off I rush inside.

-the photo is from the movie, “Home for the Holidays.”

Wow, I have not written a blog post in almost three weeks, shame on me. I’ve been feeling lately that I need to, excuse my french, “but shit or get off the pot.” Don’t get me wrong I love blogging but sometimes I feel like it’s an excuse for my fear of actually trying to do some “fiction writing.” I know I have it in me, at least I think I do. I have so many story ideas running through my head that I do want to explore and just start writing and see where it takes me.


These are a few of the ideas I have for stories, chapters or even a paragraph that I want to play around with and explore.


1. A story about modern day witches but with a funny twist. I think the story would open with an older witch looking back in time. The first sentence would be along the line with – Most children ride their first bike when they are roughly five years old. I was never one to be conventional, I rode my first broom when I was five years old…


2. A story about women in her thirties who’s life has fallen apart and she has to move back home with her mother. She has never had a good relationship with her mother. Her mother, never one to care what other people think has always embarrassed her with her carefree attitude. Her mother dresses weird, has strange friends, drinks too much, sunbathes naked in their back yard, the list goes on and on. But her mother to the reader would be a like-able character. To me, the daughter is just too uptight and needs to chill out.


The mother is a “secret” private eye and the daughter is eventually pulled into these crazy “situations” and becomes a partner in crime. The get into some hysterical detective work with their disguises and characters they must play. The daughter comes to love her mothers “uniqueness.” It’s a feel good story about the relationship with mothers and daughters.


I am excited to play around with this one.


Have you ever seen the movie Albert Brooks wrote and starred in with Debbie Reynolds playing his mother. He was a writer that was “blocked” and was trying to figure out why. He decides as an “experiment” to move back in with his Mom. My god, that movie was hysterical. It’s called “Mother” and if you haven’t seen it, rent it. I love Al Brooks’ humor, I get it…


I know I just need to try to “free write” because I get overwhelmed with all these books I read telling me the proper way to write fiction. There are just so many “rules” that sometimes it gets me stuck and stops me from trying.


Do any of you bloggers feel the same way? I’m curious to hear your thoughts.

The photos on the side are of my husband and I. We finally loaded some of our Alaska pictures on my computer.

Today is one of those days when I have so many thoughts running through my head. A guy that I work with is always asking me when I am going to do another post to my blog. I guess he’s living vicariously through me and my exciting life, yeah right! I tell him I have to have something on my mind, find something amusing or just feel like ranting. So while I was sitting on a table I looked over on the rail at a customer who was watching “the action” on my table and thought as I looked at him, “there’s something to blog about.”

Okay, so as I said above there was a guy watching my poker table. He had a pretty big facial wart on his chin. I know people have warts and maybe they don’t have the insurance to have them removed, I get that, I guess. It was the long black hair that caught my attention as he turned and the light captured it in all its glory, it must have been at least and inch and a half long. My first thought was, “look away” but I couldn’t, I was morbidly fascinated as well as grossed out. “Does he not see the hair, will it bleed if he pulls it out, why not just trim it with scissors,”, these were my thoughts.

I know “what happens in Vegas stays in Vegas,” but I’m hoping that he and that hair both get on the plane together when it’s time to depart our fine city.

I get in these moods where I take classes either on campus or online. I just finished up this class on “internet publishing” this morning. It had some good information but I didn’t care for the way that the content was written, it was very dry and boring. It really didn’t hold my interest and I’m so thankful that I am through with it.

There is a company in town that I would like to apply to work for. I am doing all my reading about them, seeing what positions they have open, what positions look like I would fit into, how best to market my abilities, what classes I might need to take to help me get in, gearing up my resume. I just feel like I would be a good fit there. If I get an interview I feel like I would do well at it, I usually do well at interviews. They are a company that it is rated one of the top 15 to work for in the country and they are all about “having fun.” I don’t know why but I just have this feeling it will happen. I visualize it happening and I have been getting all kinds of weird signs about this company since I’ve been thinking about it. Once I get back from my Christmas vacation this will be my “top priority.” Wish me luck.

We went over our friends for dinner on Saturday night. Dale and I had so much turkey left over from Thanksgiving that we made up a huge batch of slop for Turkey Pot Pies. It came out really good, so this is what we brought to our friends. Dale and Mike were having way to many cocktails and getting really “stupid.” They thought they were being funny, but they were just being idiots. Donna (Mike’s wife) and I were sitting on the couches and she asked me if I’d seen the show “sister wives.” Of course I had. It’s about the Mormon guy in Utah who is married to three sisters and has about 16 kids.

We were both laughing because we thought, that would be kind of cool. I’d take him one night a week in my room. I have no problem sharing, what a great life that would be. What’s wrong with that!

When I got home Donna and I kept texting each other and I kept saying, “I want to be a sister wife.” I don’t know why but for some reason we found this hysterical.

Well I could write more but I know that posts that get too long can get kind of boring. I guess I’ll go throw some turkey slop in a pie shell and cook it up for dinner. It seems to have gotten thicker over the last couple days. I have a few tiles loose, I guess I could use it for grout.

Until we meet again.

This post is a shout out to my best friend Trish. We have been friends for over 25 years. She was my Air Force roommate and we sure have had some laughs over the years. I can make her laugh so hard she either farts uncontrollably or pees her pants. Come on, what more can you ask for in a friend.

We have been living in different states for such a long time but it’s like no time has passed when we talk. I sent her an email today saying I missed her and we have to talk soon. I thought I would try to capture a funny experience we shared and see if I can capture it in writing. Here goes…


I went to visit her when her husband was stationed in South Carolina. We took a road trip to Myrtle Beach. She was talking about this great restaurant that had all you can eat crab legs. The tables were set up in tiers, almost shelf like with 15 or so tables on each level. I went back up to the buffet for more crab, I then proceeded back to our table and began to eat my food. My friend was not at the table so I assumed she was getting more food. I glance around the restaurant and lock eyes with my friend, she is sitting down a couple of levels and laughing her ass off. I am sitting at someone else’s table, using their silverware, drinking their water. I was so mortified but could not stop laughing.


I’m sure she soiled her pants that day… or worse.